tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post4728695298786898146..comments2023-10-09T14:33:15.856+01:00Comments on Moving on to the next plan: The clunking hand of fateHope Springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16380949423334441581noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-65795343600898024772010-05-21T04:42:55.561+01:002010-05-21T04:42:55.561+01:00I am so very sorry for your friend as it wasn'...I am so very sorry for your friend as it wasn't that long ago that I was in that very same place (though it took her much longer to get where she did!). Please tell her that even though it doesn't feel like it, it will get better, and to let herself cry all day long if that's what it takes right now. It's part of the process. The pain has to be let out somehow.<br /><br />And I agree with Sonja. Your difficulties are no less because some of us are having crazy struggles ourselves. You have every right to be stressed and scared and to express it all. It's life changing in a very real way that impacts your life significantly. <br /><br />Hoping it all irons out soon and well.Myndihttp://tenaciouslyttc.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-88399069536206548552010-05-19T15:14:06.858+01:002010-05-19T15:14:06.858+01:00Selfish you most certainly are not!! We all have ...Selfish you most certainly are not!! We all have bad moments in our lives and I feel like we cannot be too hard on ourselves if we cry or moan some. There is always someone in a worse/scarier situation. Yes, I was in the middle of a traumatic c-section, but I was also getting amazing medical help while someone in a poorer country might not have even been given a chance to survive! So don't be too hard on yourself, I am guilty of the same thing. I think we all are to some degree or another.<br /><br />I am so sorry to hear about your friend's loss, too. I cannot imagine the pain of seeing that blank u/s screen. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.quadmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17254199098599230245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-78905603053250719902010-05-17T05:47:18.095+01:002010-05-17T05:47:18.095+01:00I agree there is a lot of people getting through s...I agree there is a lot of people getting through some tough times at the moment, but your hurdles are not imaginary, they are significant and real and I still feel you have every right to feel your head spinning from all your decisions yet to be made. I know that hearing news like Sonja's or Myndis puts things into perspective though and makes you grasp onto what good things are around you though. Doesn't mean you aren't allowed to feel what you have felt though ok? xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-21955477339734824312010-05-15T19:10:29.551+01:002010-05-15T19:10:29.551+01:00*HUGE HUGE HUGS* to you, and to Myndi and Sonja. ...*HUGE HUGE HUGS* to you, and to Myndi and Sonja. Yes, good news please now XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXJeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678729608908870257noreply@blogger.com