tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post6653304180081710451..comments2023-10-09T14:33:15.856+01:00Comments on Moving on to the next plan: I spoke too soonHope Springshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16380949423334441581noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-43337538321080545272010-07-12T16:34:21.059+01:002010-07-12T16:34:21.059+01:00oh, I'm sorry to hear you're back to squar...oh, I'm sorry to hear you're back to square one. Hugs to both of you.Conceptionally Challengedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18150395444721921607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-47599672209848451132010-07-11T04:57:38.667+01:002010-07-11T04:57:38.667+01:00Oh Hopesprings. I dont know what to say as Jeanni...Oh Hopesprings. I dont know what to say as Jeannie said it all so perfectly. <br />I am thinking of you and hope you can find a way to brush aside the pressures of TTC for a little bit, I know its hard... so hard though.<br />xxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-52489036946426276362010-07-08T16:44:25.331+01:002010-07-08T16:44:25.331+01:00So, so sorry. To have the hope and then have it wa...So, so sorry. To have the hope and then have it washed away, and I can only imagine how awful he must feel, which in turn makes you feel nearly as bad. Wish I had some sage advice. <br /><br />I'm definitely with Jeannie on this. Even more reason to hope the next month is the one. Imagine getting back to a sex life that's about the connection and nothing else. Much, much more relaxing. :)Myndihttp://tenaciouslyttc.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5054933741560126677.post-88992491828253685222010-07-08T13:57:22.986+01:002010-07-08T13:57:22.986+01:00*HUGSHUGSHUGS* TTC is so unbelievable stressful, e...*HUGSHUGSHUGS* TTC is so unbelievable stressful, even without all the added hassles you guys are up against. We went through a patch to where we actually gave it a break for a month, as DH had been ill the month before, couldn't perform on cue, and I had collapsed in a shuddering heap. We decided we needed a month to clear our (my?) heads and remember that it was supposed to be love-making, not a means to an end. Huge kudos to you for managing not to collapse all over your DH, but for taking the time to try to reassure him about it. It will all work out in the end, I'm sure, as regards his issue. And I'm praying the levels are right in the next month or so, so you do not have to rely on it working out in the short term, and you can both hopefully relax and get back to enjoying the closeness and the love part. *MOREHUGS* XXXXXXXXXXXJeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678729608908870257noreply@blogger.com